Menene Yada al'ada da lafiya-kuma abin da ba haka ba
Idan kana da wani saurayi a cikin gida, zaka iya ko bazai san cewa yana al'ada ba. Bayan haka, wannan aikin al'ada shi ne haɓaka na halitta na binciken ɗan ya jikin jikinsa. Amma duk da haka, ƙila ka yi mamaki ko lokacin da yarinyarka ke zaune a bayan ƙofar kofa na gidan wanka ko kuma a lokacin dumiyar ruwa yana da lafiya. Shin zai yiwu a magance ta da yawa, alal misali, ko kuma yaron yaro zai cutar da jikinsa?
Ga wasu amsoshi masu amfana game da samari da kuma al'aura.
Yara da Yara Jima'i
Ka riga ka san wannan, amma don a bayyana: Masturbation shi ne ƙarfin jinin mutum don jin dadin jima'i. Kuma yana da al'ada da na kowa a tsakanin matasa. Wani bincike a shekarar 2011 da aka buga a Cibiyar Nazarin Pediatric Teenage ya gano cewa yara tsakanin 14 zuwa 17 sun fi dacewa su fara yin jima'i tare da wani.
Yayinda matasan suka sami zaman lafiyar, sun kara da hankali game da al'amuran masu tasowa. Hanyoyin jima'i da ke nuna alamar farawa na haihuwa zai iya taimakawa yaron ya gano jikinsa da yadda yake aiki.
Lokacin da kuke magana game da jima'i tare da yarinyarku, kada ku ji kunya daga haɓaka al'ada. Ko da yake ba shi da budewa ga yarda da cewa ya aikata shi (kuma ba a tambaye shi ba ko matsa masa ya gaya maka) yana iya taimaka masa ya san cewa al'ada ce ta gano jikinsa, cewa ba abin kunya bane. aiki, da kuma cewa yana da kyau idan dai an yi a cikin masu zaman kansu.
Kodayake yana iya tafiya ba tare da faɗi ba, yana da mahimmanci ga yarinyar ku san cewa al'aurawa abu ne mai zaman kansa.
Lokacin da zai damu
Akwai wasu batutuwa masu ban sha'awa game da al'aura. Wasu lokuta wani wuri da ake dasu zai iya zama ciwo, don haka mai amfani da lubricant zai iya taimakawa tare da batun. Domin kada ku kunyata matasa, ku yi la'akari da barin kwalban lube a cikin gidan likitancin gida inda zai iya ganin shi ba tare da an nuna shi ba.
Zai yiwu idan an yi amfani da wani abu don al'aurawa wanda zai iya lalacewa ga fataccen jikin fata. Bugu da ƙari, wani abu zai iya zama makale a lokacin motsa jiki ko tsinkaye. Wadannan abubuwa ne na musamman, amma idan yaro ya ba da damar cewa yana fama da ciwo ko rashin jin daɗi a yankin, ko ya ce yana tunanin yana ciwo kansa yayin da ake ba da lahani, yi masa alƙawari don ganin dan jariri, ba a tambayi tambayoyi ba.
Tattaunawa a cikin jama'a ko masturbation mai girma ne matsalolin. Matasa tare da FASD (Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder) wani lokacin sukan taba kansu a cikin layi ko kuma yin wasu ayyuka marasa dacewa saboda rashin lafiya. Yara da aka cin zarafi a wasu lokuta sukan kara tsananta . Idan ka ga ko dai daga cikin wadannan halayen, magana da dan jaririn.
Masturbation yana aiki ne na al'ada da lafiya har muddin ana aikatawa a cikin masu zaman kansu kuma ba ya tsoma baki tare da rayuwar yau da kullum. Yana da muhimmin ɓangare na ci gaban jima'i ba damuwa ba. Kawai game da kowane tsofaffin mata 'labarin game da shi karya ne-don haka yana da komai kadan don ka damu.
> Sources:
> Herbenick DL, Reece M, Schick V, Sanders SA, Dodge B, Fortenberry JD. "Halayyar Jima'i a Amirka: Sakamako Daga Samun Samun Samun Samun Mutum da Mata Mataki 14-94." J Jima'i Med . 2010; 7 (s5) :( samar 5) 255-265.
> Robbins CL, Schick V, Reese M, et al. "Yanayin daidaituwa, Frequency, da kuma Ƙungiyoyi na Masturbation tare da Abokan Hulɗar Jima'i a tsakanin Matasan Amurka." Arch Pediatr Ado Medc. 2011; 165 (12): 1087-1093.