Uwa da sauri ya koyi sanin ƙwaƙƙan kira na jaririn. Akwai kira don lokacin da suke fama da yunwa , da kuka saboda lokacin da basu da kwantar da hankali-har ma daya ga lokacin da suka tsorata.
A cikin 'yan sa'o'i kadan na zama iyaye, kuna koya don rarrabe tsakanin ƙuruwar da jaririn ya yi, kuma yana taimaka maka ka amsa yadda ya dace don kula da jariri. Kamar yadda ya bayyana, akwai dalilin dalili da iyaye mata suke koyi yadda za a yi kuka tsakanin ɗayan jariri-domin iyaye mata suna dacewa da matakan da suka dace da amsa ga jarirai.
A cikin cikin Uwar mahaifi a lokacin da jariri ya yi kuka
An yi nazari da yawa akan abin da ke faruwa a iyayen kirki lokacin da jaririn ya yi kuka. Ko da yake yana iya zama kamar sauƙi-jaririn ya yi kuka, mahaifiyar amsawa-binciken daya a cikin Journal of Neuroendocrinology ya bayyana cewa akwai ainihin adadin aikin kwakwalwa da tsarin da ya dace don samar da amsa.
Binciken da aka yi a shekara ta 2011 ya bayyana cewa akwai wurare daban-daban na kwakwalwa lokacin da jaririn ya yi kuka. Binciken ya bayyana yadda ake kwarjin kwakwalwa ta hanyar muryar jariri yana kuka. Masu bincike a binciken sunyi zaton cewa sauye-sauyen canje-canjen da ke faruwa a cikin kwakwalwa na ainihi za su fara ne tun kafin haihuwar, a lokacin daukar ciki, kuma sun hada da karuwa mai girma a cikin hormone dopamine, wanda ke taimakawa wajen kwantar da kwakwalwarsa don iyaye.
Tsarin Hormonal Key ne
Baya ga dopamine, hormone oxytocin yana taka muhimmiyar rawa wajen daidaita halin mutuntaka don amsawa ga kukawar jaririn.
Da farko, idan an sanya jariri a ƙirjin, zai haifar da rashin kwakwalwa don kwantar da kwakwalwarta da kuma inganta haɗin gwiwa, jin tausayi, da kuma sauran "hormones" masu jin dadi da ke taimakawa ta kafa dangantaka ta kusa da jariri.
Yawancin tsarin tsarin hormonal sun taimaka wajen taka rawar a cikin tsarin "sakamako", wanda ya haddasa kwakwalwar mahaifiyar zuciya tare da jin dadi mai kyau don amsawa ga kula da jariri.
Hanyar yanayi ne don tabbatar da mahaifiyar da ke kula da jaririnta!
Kowane Iyaye Ta Bambanta
Binciken binciken na shekarar 2011 ya gano cewa akwai wasu bambance-bambance a cikin saki da tsarin ka'ida tsakanin iyaye mata. Alal misali, iyaye mata da suka haifa ba da gangan sun nuna karin maganin kwakwalwa ga kuka na baby a makonni 2-4 na makonni fiye da iyaye mata wadanda suka haifa ta hanyar C. Har ila yau, binciken ya gano cewa iyaye mata masu shayarwa sun fi mayar da hankali a kan kwakwalwa fiye da mahaifiyar da aka tanada abinci; wannan ba wai ya ce sun kasance "iyaye" mafi kyau ba, amma kawai akwai wasu bambance-bambance iri-iri, watau mahimmanci don samar da madara da kuma tsari.
Kwakwalwar mahaifiyarta tana da kyau-ta kara da kanta domin kawai tana amsa muryar jaririnta; wannan ya bayyana dalilin da ya sa mahaifiyar zata iya koyon jaririn kansa, amma ba kowane jariri a cikin daki ba. Shin za ku iya tunanin abin da zai faru idan duk iyaye mata a ko'ina suke sarrafa kukan dukkan yara? Zai zama abin ƙwaƙwalwa ne ga ƙwaƙwalwar su. Maimakon barin wannan ya faru, kwakwalwar mahaifiyar ta atomatik ta ɗaga muryar sauran jarirai don su iya mayar da hankali kan kanta.
Wasu dalilai, irin su idan mahaifiyar ta wuce damuwa a rayuwarta, kamar cututtuka ko rashin lafiya na tunanin mutum, na iya haifar da tsangwama tare da ka'idojin hormonal da kunna kwakwalwa.
Ko da abubuwa kamar uwar da ke da kulawa da yawa kamar yadda yaro ya kasance tare da rashin kulawa da jaririnta.
'Mom Brain' Gaskiya ce
Binciken da aka yi kwanan nan a shekara ta 2017 a cikin Ayyukan Cibiyar Kwalejin Kimiyya ta Duniya ya tabbatar da cewa canje-canjen da ke faruwa a cikin kwakwalwa a cikin uwaye suna da gaske kuma suna faruwa da iyaye mata a fadin duniya. Canje-canje a cikin kwakwalwar mahaifiyar da ke faruwa a mayar da martani ga jaririn da ke ciki yana shafar sassan kwakwalwarta wadda ta motsa ta ta motsawa da magana, ta aiwatar da sauti, kuma ta zama mai kulawa. Ainihin, sun taimaka ta yin duk abin da ya kamata don kula da jariri.
Canje-canje a cikin kwakwalwa an sami bambanta tsakanin mata da ke da 'ya'ya kamar idan aka kwatanta da waɗanda ba su da' ya'ya.
Kalma Daga Verywell
Muryar jariri tana wakiltar ainihin hanyar da mahaifiyar ta koya game da jariri. Kirar jariri shine hanyar da za ta nuna alama ga mai kula da shi cewa yana buƙatar ƙauna da kulawa. Kuma saboda kuka shine jariri kawai kayan aiki don rayuwa, kwakwalwa ta mahaifiyar mutum tana da matukar mahimmancin amsawa da kuma halayen sauraro ta kuka. Mai yiwuwa jaririnka zai iya sanar da kai cewa yana fama da yunwa, amma a kwakwalwar kwakwalwa, akwai abubuwa masu yawa fiye da yadda za mu gane.
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