Kuna tsammanin yarinyar matasa ba tashin hankali ba zai iya faruwa ga ɗanku ko 'yarku? Ka yi la'akari da cewa yana da matashi sosai don wannan ya faru, ko kuwa ba zai faru ba saboda yaro ne? Ƙididdigar ƙasa daga Cibiyoyin Kula da Cututtuka da Cututtuka na Amurka a kan yarinyar mata na tashin hankali suna ba da labarin daban.
Yaya Sau da yawa Abokan Tunawa da Abokan Tunawa?
Lissafi na yau da kullum game da 'yan ta'adda mazauna tashin hankali sun ba da labari mai ban tsoro:
- Ɗaya daga cikin yara mata 10 da ɗayan 'yan matashi 11 sun yarda da cewa sun fuskanci tashin hankali na jiki a cikin dangantaka ta dangantaka a cikin shekara ta gabata. Ɗaya daga cikin shekaru uku yana cewa sun san mutumin da aka yi masa rauni ko kuma ya ji rauni ta hanyar abokin hulɗa.
- Ɗaya daga cikin shekaru goma sha uku da goma sha takwas da suka kasance cikin dangantaka sun ce sun san mutumin da yaron ya yi fushi da saurayi ko budurwa.
- Ɗaya daga cikin yara biyar ya yarda da kasancewa da tausayi a cikin shekara ta gabata.
- Daga cikin 'yan shekaru 11 zuwa 14 wadanda suka kasance cikin dangantaka, 62% daga cikinsu sun san abokanan da aka yi musu azaba da saurayi ko budurwa.
- Kimanin guda biyar a cikin 'yan mata biyar sunyi ta cin zarafin jiki ko kuma ta hanyar cin zarafi.
- 70% na yarinya mata da aka yi wa mata jima'i sun san maharan su. Mai haɗari yana aboki ne, abokiyar mutum ko sananne.
- Fiye da rabin 'yan matan da aka bincika sun nuna rashin amincewar juna a cikin dangantakar su - ma'anar cewa duka ita da abokinta sun kasance masu rikici da juna.
Bayan Musgunawa da Zalunci
Bugu da ƙari, tashin hankali na jiki, yawancin matasa suna cikin rikici ko halayyar cin mutunci. Tashin hankali da cututtuka alamu ne guda ɗaya don kallo, amma yana da mahimmanci ga iyaye su lura da alamun tashin hankali ko damuwa.
Teen Dating cin zarafin da tashin hankali yana faruwa a ko'ina don yawan lamarin matasa.
Yana da muhimmanci ga iyaye su san kididdigar, alamun da abokin ku na abokin tarayya ya zama maciyi , abin da ma'anar cin zarafi a cikin dangantaka yana kama, da abin da za ku nema idan kun yi tunanin anyi mummunan ku. Iyaye masu ilmantarwa zasu iya taimakawa wajen dakatar da wannan annoba ta cin zarafin yara.
Sources:
Zabi Abunta: Abun Tunawa da Abuta. Cibiyoyin Kula da Cututtuka. http://chooserespect.engagethecrowd.com/scripts/teens/statistics.asp
Teen Dating Rikicin. Cibiyar Taimakon Rigakafin Rikicin Rikicin Kasa ta kasa. http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/faq/dateviolfacts.asp#9
Harkokin Rikicin Yara da Yara da Yara: Yarin Binciken Abokan Hunawa na Sadaka. Ma'aikatar Shari'a ta Amurka, Ofisoshin Tsaro. https://www.nij.gov/journals/261/pages/teen-dating-violence.aspx
Tsakanin Nazarin Hulɗa. Abun Hulɗa na Abokin Tunawa na Matasa na Yamma. http://www.loveisrespect.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/tru-tween-teen-study-feb-081.pdf