Samun jariri a kowane zamani yana iya zama mai ban sha'awa da farin ciki. Yana kuma iya haifar damu. Ga iyaye mata da suka jinkirta jinkirin haihuwa da ciki har zuwa shekaru talatin da farkonsu, akwai wasu damuwa da za a magance su. Yayinda adadin wadannan mata suka karu a cikin shekaru, yawan mahaifi fiye da 40 suna girma fiye da yadda suka wuce.
Wannan a hakika yana da amfani daga ra'ayi na masana kimiyya saboda suna da karin bayanai don magance matsalolin matan.
Kafin a yi duk wani bincike na mata an gaya musu cewa suna da matukar damuwa na yin ciki da kuma haifar da yaron lafiya. Kimiyya ta nuna mana cewa wannan ba gaskiya bane. Ga wasu wuraren damuwa ga mahaifiyar mahaifa:
Yara
Babu ƙwayar haihuwa ba tare da kowace mahaifiyar da ta kai shekaru 30. Duk da haka, kowa da kowa, ciki har da maza, za su sami raguwa a cikin shekaru talatin. Wannan bazai zama karɓaccen fahimta ba kuma babu lokacin da aka saita lokacin da wannan ya fara. Mata a cikin shekaru talatin kuma a kan suna iya ƙin ƙananan sau da yawa, ƙwayoyin su na da wuya a yi takin ƙwayoyi kuma suna iya ƙila su fuskanci matsaloli tare da endometriosis da kuma jigilar kwalliya. Yawancin ci gaban fasaha sun samu cigaba a cikin jiyya na haihuwa, yana taimaka mata da yawa da suka kasance a baya zasu sami matsala don yin ciki.
Kyakkyawan kulawa nagari zai iya taimaka maka ka hana da gano wadannan matsalolin matsalolin kafin su damu.
Nazarin Halitta
Gwaran gwaji da shawara suna da matsala. Tun lokacin da wasu tasowa a cikin lalacewar haihuwa ya bayyana tare da tsohuwar shekara, wanda zai iya ƙara yawan ƙaura, bada shawara da gwadawa ga mafi yawan mata fiye da shekaru 35.
Wasu mata da iyalansu sun zaɓa su yi wani gwaji, yayin da wasu sun zaba duk gwaji da suke samuwa. Babu amsa mai kyau.
Kwararriyar kwarewa zai iya zama mai kyau zaɓi, koda kuwa gwadawa ba wani zaɓi ba ne a gare ku. Hakanan za'a iya yin wannan kafin zuwan. Shawarar tana da dangantaka mai tsawo, cikakken bayani tare da mai ba da shawara, kuma watakila jini yana aiki daga gare ku da abokinku.
Kwararrun kwayoyin halitta na iya zama mai sauƙi, kuma marar lahani ga jaririn, kamar jarrabawar Alpha Alpha-fetoprotein (wanda aka sani da sau uku) . Wannan jarrabawa ne na gwaje-gwaje don rashin ciwon ƙwayar ƙwayar ƙwayar cuta da Down syndrome. Sauran wasu gwaji sun hada da amniocentesis , chorionic villus samfur (CVS), da duban dan tayi . Wasu daga cikin waɗannan gwaje-gwajen sunyi hadari ga ciki. Tattaunawa ga likitanka ko kuma ungozoma game da hadarin da ke tattare da ita da amfani da kai yana da mahimmanci a kowace shawarar da kake yi.
Matsalolin ciki
Kawai kasancewa a kan wasu shekarun bazai sanya ka ga yawancin rikici ba. Ko da yake yawancin binciken da aka nuna sun nuna cewa mata fiye da 35 suna da damar samun damuwa na rikici da yawa saboda yawan yanayi (kamar matsalolin jini, da dai sauransu) maimakon ƙuruciya da ciki. Wannan shi ne inda shawarwari na yau da kullum zai iya taimaka maka gano abin da kake buƙatar yi don samun lafiya a gaban daukar ciki.
Ga wasu alamomi don daukar ciki lafiya:
- Yi amfani da acid don taimakawa wajen hana ƙwayar ƙwayar ƙananan ƙarfin
- Ku ci abinci mara kyau
- Fara shirin motsa jiki
- Samun duk yanayin likita da aka rigaya a karkashin iko
- Ka guje wa siga, barasa da sauran kwayoyi
Labarin Labarai da Nuna
Kuna iya jin cewa akwai karin matsalolin lokacin haihuwa ga mata fiye da 35. Wasu matsalolin da ke faruwa akai-akai a cikin mahaifiyar mahaifa, kamar matsalolin jini, sukan haifar da buƙata don aiwatarwa kamar waɗannan sassan ɓarna da kuma ƙaddamar da aiki . Duk da yake akwai karuwa a tsawon aiki da tsawon lokaci na biyu, wanda zai iya bayyana yawan halayen marasa lafiya na wannan jinsin, mutane da yawa suna cewa wannan shi ne kawai daga karuwar maganin haihuwa na mata fiye da 35.
Gudanar da kulawa tare da kulawa da kanka zai iya taimakawa wajen dakatar da wasu daga cikin matsaloli masu wuya, da kuma neman mutumin da ya yi imani da falsafar haihuwa ta al'ada ba tare da la'akari da shekaru ba.
Bishara
Bishara ita ce, tare da kulawa da kai tsaye da farko, zai fi dacewa kafin fara ciki, zaku iya samun farin ciki da kwanciyar hankali tare da irin wannan sakamako ga waɗanda mata a cikin shekaru ashirin. Yawancin iyaye mata da suka shiga wannan rukuni sukan ji daɗi sosai don bukatun yaro a hankali da kuma kudi. Kwalejin Amurka na Obstetricians da Gynecologists sun ƙaddara, "Shekaru bai kamata a kasance wani abu mai kariya ga lafiyar lafiya ba."