Yayinda yarin yaro ya tasowa, yanayin su zai fara kama
Kamar yadda matashi kamar yadda yake a jariri, muna nuna dabi'ar hali ga yara. Zamu iya cewa "shi dan jariri ne," ko kuma "tana da sauki," ko kuma ya nuna cewa yaron yana "taurin zuciya." Amma yayin da waɗannan halaye zasu iya ba da alamun abin da ke zuwa, yanayin ɗanku ba zai fara farawa ba har sai daga baya.
Akwai dalilai masu kyau don iyaye su so su san abin da ɗayansu zai kasance.
Yin iyaye da za a iya buɗewa zai iya haɗawa da fasaha da fasaha daban-daban fiye da iyaye iyaye, kuma yara da nau'ikan halaye dabam dabam zasu fi dacewa da hanyoyin da suka dace da kuma maganin da suka dace.
Waɗannan dabi'un halaye sun fara farawa a makarantar sakandare. Ga yadda zaka iya fada lokacin da hali yaronka yake fitowa, da kuma abin da wannan hali yake nufi.
Jin zafi ba shine halin ɗanku ba
Akwai alamun yarinyar yaro daga farkon farkon rayuwa. Alal misali, wasu yara suna sha'awar yin aiki, yayin da wasu sun fi son sassauci. Masanan ilimin kimiyya suna kira wadannan alamar "yanayin".
Cutar da ke cikin abu mai ban mamaki kuma an gano shi ta hanyoyi daban-daban ta hanyar masu binciken daban-daban - a wasu kalmomi, jariran suna da wasu yanayi a hankali, amma yanayin ba shine "hali" ba.
Halin mutum shine jimlar jimlar tunanin mutum, haɓaka da halayen hali.
A cewar masanin ilimin psychologist Dan McAdams, halin mutuntakar mutum zai iya kasancewa ta hanyar lura da halin halayen mutum a cikin shekaru.
Wadannan dabi'un ba su bayyana a cikin cikakkiyar daidaituwa har zuwa tsakanin shekaru. Sabili da haka, halin mutum ya fito ne a cikin mafi mahimmanci kawai yayin da yarinyar ke fuskanta.
Kafin wannan lokacin, zaku iya kallon halin halayen yara kamar yadda halayen ya shafi sauran mutane da ke kewaye da su, yayin da amsoshin hali ya fara faruwa a kusa da shekaru 11 da 12.
Babban Halayen Halin Halin
Kamar yanayin hali, dabi'u masu halaye sun nuna dabi'a ta hanyoyi daban-daban ta hanyar masu bincike daban-daban.
Zai yiwu ɗaya daga cikin abubuwan da aka fi sani da tarihin mutum ya mai da hankalin mutum biyar. Su ne:
- Gaskiya. Wannan yana bayyana mutumin da yake tsammanin kasancewarsa a lokaci ko farkon don alƙawura, yana da alhaki sosai kuma yana aiki ga manufar dogon lokaci tare da kulawa ko kaɗan.
- Aminci . Har ila yau, ana kiran sa-zamantakewa, mutumin da yake yarda yana da kyakkyawan hulɗar zamantakewar jama'a, yana da farin cikin kasancewa, yana aiki don taimakawa wasu, kuma yana haɗaka da kyau a cikin ƙungiyoyi. Yana kuma nuna nuna tausayi da sau da yawa.
- Bayani don kwarewa . Mutumin da yake da kwarewa don samun kwarewa shi ne m, mai sauƙi, mai ban sha'awa da kuma baƙo. Yana jin daɗin tunaninsa da jin dadin rayuwa, irin su ta hanyar kallon hotunan, sauraron sababbin kiɗa, samfurorin abinci da kuma karatun littattafai da shayari. Mutumin da yake buɗe yana so ya sami iri-iri a rayuwarsa yau da kullum yana sha'awar sabon abu.
- Neuroticism. Mutumin da ke da hali ya fuskanci kullun jihohi, irin su tashin hankali, fushi, laifi, da damuwa, akai-akai. Mutanen da suke da matsanancin ƙarancin baƙi sun fi sauƙi fiye da matsakaita don magance matsalar rashin ƙarfi don fassarawa da kuma fassara yanayi a matsayin barazana ko rashin wahala.
- Ƙari . Mutum wanda yake jin dadi shine mutum wanda yake karfafawa ta kasancewa tare da wasu mutane. Wannan shi ne akasin wanda aka gabatar, wanda yake karfafawa ta hanyar zama kadai.
Matsayinku na ɗanku a shekarunsu
Wadannan alamomi guda biyar sunyi kira a cikin yara a cikin shekaru, kuma sakamakon haɗin halayen ya haifar da halin ɗan ya.
Musamman ma, masu bincike sun fara samun bambance-bambance daga ɗayan yaro zuwa gaba akan kowane abu mai suna Big Five halaye a cikin shekaru. Suna kuma samo irin abubuwan da ke faruwa a cikin matakan manyan siffofi na 5 wadanda ke faruwa a kowane ɗayan. Alal misali, haɗin kai yana da tsayin daka a cikin shekaru.
Haɗuwa da bambance-bambance daban-daban da aka haɗa tare da sauran al'amuran al'ada ya nuna cewa halaye - sabili da haka "halin jariri" - ya fito da gaske a lokacin samari.
Da zarar hali ya fito, ba ya motsawa sosai: nazari na 2010 ya gano cewa dabi'un halayen mutum sun fara lura da malaman makarantar firamare na iya hango halin halayya.
Wannan binciken, daga masu bincike a Jami'ar California, Riverside, Cibiyar Nazarin Oregon da Jami'ar Oregon, sunyi amfani da darajar mutum daga 'yan makarantar sakandare a cikin rukunin yara daban-daban na Hawaii a cikin shekarun 1960, kwatanta irin waɗannan dabi'un da aka tsara don hotunan su. tantaunawa game da 144 daga cikin wadanda mutane 40 suka shude. Masu bincike sun gano cewa halaye da malamai suka lura da shi har yanzu sun cigaba da shekaru hudu a baya kuma cewa waɗannan dabi'un sunyi furucin amsa ga yanayin zamantakewa.
Halin mutum yana da banbanci. Yayinda yaro ya shiga gidansa, goyi bayan abubuwan da ke cikin hali ta hanyar yin abin da suka riga ya nuna maka ya sa su sa ido.
Source:
McAdams, Dan, & Olson, Bradley. Shirye-shiryen Mutum: Ci gaba da Sauya Tsarin Rayuwa. Bincike na shekara-shekara na ilimin halin ilimin kimiyya. 2010. 61: 517-542.
Nave CS et al. A kan Abubuwan Hulɗa na Abubuwan Hulɗa: Mahimman Bayanai na Malamai sunyi Magana game da Abubuwan Hulɗa Bayan Bayanni Bakwai. Ilimin zamantakewar al'umma da kuma kimiyya. 2010 Jul 8; 3 (1): 1-9.